{"id":17859,"date":"2019-03-13T12:13:53","date_gmt":"2019-03-13T10:13:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/?p=17859"},"modified":"2019-03-13T14:12:14","modified_gmt":"2019-03-13T12:12:14","slug":"esti-timid-cateva-solutii-care-te-ajuta-sa-treci-peste-asta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/esti-timid-cateva-solutii-care-te-ajuta-sa-treci-peste-asta\/","title":{"rendered":"E\u0219ti timid? C\u00e2teva solu\u021bii care te ajut\u0103 s\u0103 treci peste asta"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-17865 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Esti_mai_inteligent_decat_crezi_09-e1552479092897-209x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"209\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Esti_mai_inteligent_decat_crezi_09-e1552479092897-209x300.png 209w, https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Esti_mai_inteligent_decat_crezi_09-e1552479092897-714x1024.png 714w, https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Esti_mai_inteligent_decat_crezi_09-e1552479092897.png 764w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 209px) 100vw, 209px\" \/>Exist\u0103 anumite situa\u021bii \u00een via\u021b\u0103 c\u00e2nd suntem emotivi \u0219i sim\u021bim un disconfort, de regul\u0103 un sentiment de team\u0103, \u00een situa\u021bii interpersonale care ne afecteaz\u0103 at\u00e2t via\u021ba personal\u0103 c\u00e2t \u0219i cea profesional\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Daniel Goleman sus\u021bine c\u0103 lumea afacerilor este adesea format\u0103 din oameni cu un coeficient de inteligen\u021b\u0103 mai sc\u0103zut care \u00eei conduc pe unii cu un IQ mai ridicat. Tot ce trebuie s\u0103 faci este s\u0103-\u021bi dai seama c\u0103 e\u0219ti mai inteligent dec\u00e2t crezi.<\/p>\n<p>Acest lucru \u00eel afirm\u0103 \u0219i Dr. Thomas Armstrog, \u00een cartea sa destinat\u0103 copiilor, \u201eE\u0219ti mai inteligent dec\u00e2t crezi\u201d. Dr. Armstrong propune o serie de solu\u021bii pentru a \u00eenvinge timiditatea \u0219i pentru dezvoltarea abilit\u0103\u021bilor sociale:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Z\u00e2mbe\u0219te<\/strong> \u2013 Este un lucru simplu, dar atunci c\u00e2nd le z\u00e2mbe\u0219ti oamenilor, \u00eei anun\u021bi c\u0103 \u00eei placi \u0219i c\u0103 e\u0219ti interesat de ei. Este foarte posibil ca oamenii s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi r\u0103spund\u0103 \u00eentr-un mod pozitiv dac\u0103 le z\u00e2mbe\u0219ti.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ascult\u0103<\/strong> \u2013 Acord\u0103-le prietenilor t\u0103i suficient timp pentru a vorbi \u0219i concentreaz\u0103-te asupra a ceea ce spun ei. Cel mai important este s\u0103-i la\u0219i s\u0103 termine de vorbit \u00eenainte de a r\u0103spunde.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Fii tu \u00eensu\u021bi<\/strong> \u2013 Dac\u0103 e\u0219ti timid sau nu te sim\u021bi confortabil s\u0103 vorbe\u0219ti mult, totu\u0219i \u00ee\u021bi po\u021bi demonstra capacit\u0103\u021bile inteligen\u021bei sociale, dac\u0103 \u00eentrebi \u0219i e\u0219ti atent la r\u0103spunsuri, u\u0219a c\u0103tre prietenia \u021bi-a fost deschis\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><strong>G\u0103se\u0219te puncte comune de interes<\/strong> \u2013 Atunci c\u00e2nd vorbe\u0219ti, g\u0103se\u0219te subiecte care s\u0103 te intereseze at\u00e2t pe tine, c\u00e2t \u0219i pe ceilal\u021bi. Interesele comune te ajut\u0103 s\u0103 cuno\u0219ti \u0219i s\u0103 p\u0103strezi conversa\u021bia vie.<\/p>\n<p><strong>P\u0103streaz\u0103 \u0219ansele de partea ta<\/strong> \u2013 Este indicat s\u0103 mergi acolo unde se \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219esc pasiunile. De exemplu, dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi place s\u0103 colec\u021bionezi timbre, g\u0103se\u0219te un grup de colec\u021bionari de timbre; dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi place fotbalul, intr\u0103 \u00eentr-o echip\u0103 de fotbal.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eE\u0219ti mai inteligent dec\u00e2t crezi\u201d de Thomas Armstrong te ajut\u0103 s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi cum s\u0103 aplici teoria inteligen\u021belor \u00een via\u021ba de zi cu zi \u0219i te face con\u0219tient de abilit\u0103\u021bile tale. Thomas Armstrong afirm\u0103 c\u0103 a fi inteligent nu presupune doar s\u0103 iei note mari, s\u0103 ob\u021bii un punctaj bun la teste \u0219i s\u0103 memorezi lucruri. El define\u0219te inteligen\u021ba printr-un mod mai simplu, afirm\u00e2nd c\u0103 aceasta const\u0103 \u00een \u00een\u021belegerea \u0219i interac\u021bionarea cu cei din jur, capacitatea de a\u021bi stabili obiectivele personale, s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi din experien\u021bele trecute, s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi \u00een\u021belegi punctele slabe \u0219i pe cele forte.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Exist\u0103 anumite situa\u021bii \u00een via\u021b\u0103 c\u00e2nd suntem emotivi \u0219i sim\u021bim un disconfort, de regul\u0103 un sentiment de team\u0103, \u00een situa\u021bii interpersonale care ne afecteaz\u0103 at\u00e2t via\u021ba personal\u0103 c\u00e2t \u0219i cea profesional\u0103. Daniel Goleman sus\u021bine c\u0103 lumea afacerilor este adesea format\u0103 din oameni cu un coeficient de inteligen\u021b\u0103 mai sc\u0103zut care \u00eei conduc pe unii cu&hellip;&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/esti-timid-cateva-solutii-care-te-ajuta-sa-treci-peste-asta\/\" rel=\"bookmark\"><span class=\"screen-reader-text\">E\u0219ti timid? C\u00e2teva solu\u021bii care te ajut\u0103 s\u0103 treci peste asta<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":17862,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17859","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-e-stuff"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17859","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17859"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17859\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17862"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17859"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17859"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17859"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}