{"id":15314,"date":"2016-08-16T16:46:57","date_gmt":"2016-08-16T14:46:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/?p=15314"},"modified":"2016-08-16T16:46:57","modified_gmt":"2016-08-16T14:46:57","slug":"curajul-de-a-fi-vulnerabil-curajul-de-a-fi-cu-adevarat-tu-gaspar-gyorgy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/curajul-de-a-fi-vulnerabil-curajul-de-a-fi-cu-adevarat-tu-gaspar-gyorgy\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8222;Curajul de a fi vulnerabil&#8221;, curajul de a fi cu adev\u0103rat TU: Gaspar Gyorgy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00centr-o perioad\u0103 \u00een care perfec\u021biunea pare a ne defini fiecare gest, Brene Brown, cercet\u0103tor \u0219i specialist \u00een public speaking, ne ofer\u0103 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/carti\/promotii\/curajul-de-a-fi-vulnerabil-brene-brown.html\"><strong>Curajul de a fi vulnerabil<\/strong><\/a>, o poveste real\u0103 despre curajul de a fi cu adev\u0103rat TU.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Inspira\u021bi de acest volum care oric\u00e2nd ar putea primi un Premiu Nobel pentru cea mai bun\u0103 carte de auto-cunoa\u0219tere, am \u00eentrebat personalit\u0103\u021bi din diverse domenii care este vulnerabilitatea lor \u0219i cum au devenit mai puternici cu ajutorul acesteia.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ast\u0103zi \u00eei d\u0103m cuv\u00e2ntul lui <strong>Gaspar Gyorgy<\/strong>, psiholog \u0219i psihoterapeut rela\u021bional, cel care semneaz\u0103 prefa\u021ba volumului.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-15317\" src=\"http:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/curajul_Gaspar-08.png\" alt=\"curajul_Gaspar-08\" width=\"856\" height=\"860\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/curajul_Gaspar-08.png 856w, https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/curajul_Gaspar-08-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/curajul_Gaspar-08-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/www.curteaveche.ro\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/curajul_Gaspar-08-768x772.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 856px) 100vw, 856px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em>Oamenii ca mine sunt descri\u0219i \u00een psihologie ca fiind \u201cintrover\u021bi\u201d. Nou\u0103 ne place mai mult s\u0103 ascult\u0103m dec\u00e2t s\u0103 vorbim; ne place compania altora, dar iubim \u0219i mai mult s\u0103 petrecem timp cu noi \u00een\u0219ine. A fi introvert \u00eenseamn\u0103 a avea o via\u021b\u0103 interioar\u0103 bogat\u0103 \u0219i semnificativ\u0103. Ne pricepem foarte bine la a ne \u201cascunde\u201d adev\u0103rata natur\u0103; adesea trecem neobserva\u021bi \u00een anii de \u0219coal\u0103; prefer\u0103m lini\u0219tea \u0219i ne sim\u021bim mult mai bine \u00een cercurile mici, dec\u00e2t \u00een grupurile mari de oameni.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em> \u00centr-o lume a expunerii \u0219i competitivit\u0103\u021bii sociale, latura mea introvert\u0103 nu m-a ajutat prea mult, mai ales c\u0103 din copil\u0103rie mi s-a cerut s\u0103 fiu altfel dec\u00e2t sunt. S\u0103 vorbesc atunci c\u00e2nd nu sim\u021beam, s\u0103 interac\u021bionez cu oameni cu care nu \u00eemi doream, s\u0103 fiu curajos atunci c\u00e2nd eram paralizat de fric\u0103. \u00cen mod cert aceast\u0103 latur\u0103 \u201csensibil\u0103\u201d a fost mereu marea mea vulnerabilitate \u2013 cuv\u00e2nt pe care mult\u0103 vreme l-am respins din toate puterile. Aveam impresia c\u0103 sunt \u201cdefect\u201d, \u201cciudat\u201d, \u201catipic\u201d \u0219i lipsit de masculinitate; to\u021bi cei din jurul meu p\u0103reau mai buni, mai puternici, mai \u00eencrez\u0103tori. <\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em>Cu timpul, ajuns la facultatea de psihologie, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 studiez latura noastr\u0103 uman\u0103, s\u0103 fiu tot mai interesat de structurile de personalitate \u0219i s\u0103 descop\u0103r c\u0103 \u00een aceast\u0103 lume exist\u0103 mul\u021bi oameni asemenea mie \u2013 din fericire popula\u021bia globului nu este compus\u0103 doar din extrover\u021bi. Apoi am descoperit-o pe Bren\u00e9 Brown \u2013 care mi-a schimbat radical perspectiva asupra vulnerbilit\u0103\u021bii \u0219i m-a ajutat s\u0103-mi recap\u0103t \u00eencrederea \u00een mine; s\u0103 m\u0103 pre\u021buiesc pentru ceea ce sunt; s\u0103 nu-mi doresc s\u0103 fiu ca al\u021bii \u0219i s\u0103 vorbesc doar atunci c\u00e2nd vreau sau simt c\u0103 ceea ce am de spus poate avea un impact asupra celor din jurul meu. \u00cen prezent v\u0103d latura mea introvert\u0103 tot ca vulnerabilitate, dar din fericire nu mai v\u0103d vulnerabilitatea ca fiind ceva negativ, o v\u0103d drept cea mai potrivit\u0103 m\u0103sur\u0103 a curajului. \u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00centr-o perioad\u0103 \u00een care perfec\u021biunea pare a ne defini fiecare gest, Brene Brown, cercet\u0103tor \u0219i specialist \u00een public speaking, ne ofer\u0103 Curajul de a fi vulnerabil, o poveste real\u0103 despre curajul de a fi cu adev\u0103rat TU. 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